Somewhere, I met up with Lydia and an absolutely wonderful thing happened! The key takeaway for the lesson was that it made me understand that when one says "someone can't do this", "someone can't do that", one has just limited the capabilities of being absolutely surprised!
When we believe that someone can't do anything, we've just limited them from surprising us!
Conversely, when we believe that someone is capable of exceeding our expectations, we've just set up a challenge for them to exceed our expectations and pleasantly surprise us!