And I'm back on the dating scene.

So I chatted with a person named X, and asked him/her for coffee a while back. The meetup was to be on a weekend a few weeks back.
(S)he didn't respond to anything (whether yes, no), and then, on the Friday evening, one day before the meetup, (s)he suddenly popped up to say, oh, (s)he had to go to a meeting the next day.

So, fine. Whenever (s)he chats, it's like (s)he's busy doing something. After a while, with the impression of me getting ignored by him/her, I just deleted he(r) chats and contact with the intention not to contact him/her again. This was a few weeks ago.

Today, (s)he suddenly showed up on my chat app to check how I'm doing. After I responded, (s)he said we'll be meeting up soon. I promptly told him/her I'm no longer interested in a meetup, wished him/her a great life, and deleted the entire chat.