A bunch of us were chatting on the IRC.

Then, this lady, named OliviaVi, came in. She's married. She asked if it's okay to have an affair with another man, but without sex.

She wasn't clear in her messages, but apparently, it thrills her to see the other guy. It also feels nice when she looks at him. She mentioned also that she has told the guy that she likes him.

Despite advices from the bunch of us, which includes

  1. “Don't do it... Affairs of the heart is wrong” when you're married
  2. “How would you feel if your husband did it?”
  3. “It's wrong, even without sex”

She thinks our advices are wrong. And that we're not sincere. She then asked how many of us are married woman.

It would seem apparently, that she's set her mind upon having an affair with the guy for the next half a year.

So, what's your opinion?